Twisted
Bad Friend:
You know the worst type of friend? The worst type of friend is the kind you confide in, the kind you tell personal things to and then turn around and realize that they are throwing those things back in your face in a spiteful way. That is a mark of a truly twisted person.
This person will also not likely take what they are saying into consideration before saying it. They will say what they wish to say without thinking about how those things will affect the receiving party. There can be two reasons why they do this: 1) They are stupid 2) They put themselves first and it's not that they don't know how powerful their words are; they just don't care.
Weird Friend:
A weird friend is a friend that you know you probably shouldn't be friends with. Say, someone like an old high school teacher. It's probably creepy to be friends with them on facebook and message them 3,000 times. That person is most likely a creepy creeper. Especially if they stalk your blog after you unfriend them forever. Be warned, and buy a pit bull.
Bad Person:
You may be a bad person if you are married, and deliberately become or stay friends with a person you knew used to have a crush on you. You're probably a bad person if you're telling that person that you've had dreams about them and are in multiple ways, fueling a dead crush. You may also be a bad person for messaging a single girl in her 20s when you are in your 30s and old and are probably growing hair on your back and are married. Do you know what that says? It says you're probably not having a sufficient amount of sex in your marriage. Which isn't surprising; it's a marriage and you're halfway to being 70.
Advice:
If you ever feel tempted to become friends again with a borderline abusive person who is mean to you constantly, just sit down, take a deep breath and remember every single mean thing they've ever said to you. Every slam, every name, every subtle dig, every fight; remember it all. And you'll stop having the problem of missing them.
If you ever feel tempted to become friends with a weird friend; just say no. If it's obvious they don't fit into your life (and don't in any way relate to 100% of your other friends) just walk away.
If you ever feel tempted to become friends with a bad person stop trying to see the best in them and take a moment to see who they really are. If the picture is ugly, paint over it. If just by being your friend they are crossing lines, realize they have no respect for their girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband and probably don't have any for you either.
If someone is bad to you, let go of them. Don't just let go; slam the door in their face and lock it. Swallow the key, go buy some shoes, write a brief blog entry, and never think about them again. They never really impacted your life by being your friend anyway.
You know the worst type of friend? The worst type of friend is the kind you confide in, the kind you tell personal things to and then turn around and realize that they are throwing those things back in your face in a spiteful way. That is a mark of a truly twisted person.
This person will also not likely take what they are saying into consideration before saying it. They will say what they wish to say without thinking about how those things will affect the receiving party. There can be two reasons why they do this: 1) They are stupid 2) They put themselves first and it's not that they don't know how powerful their words are; they just don't care.
Weird Friend:
A weird friend is a friend that you know you probably shouldn't be friends with. Say, someone like an old high school teacher. It's probably creepy to be friends with them on facebook and message them 3,000 times. That person is most likely a creepy creeper. Especially if they stalk your blog after you unfriend them forever. Be warned, and buy a pit bull.
Bad Person:
You may be a bad person if you are married, and deliberately become or stay friends with a person you knew used to have a crush on you. You're probably a bad person if you're telling that person that you've had dreams about them and are in multiple ways, fueling a dead crush. You may also be a bad person for messaging a single girl in her 20s when you are in your 30s and old and are probably growing hair on your back and are married. Do you know what that says? It says you're probably not having a sufficient amount of sex in your marriage. Which isn't surprising; it's a marriage and you're halfway to being 70.
Advice:
If you ever feel tempted to become friends again with a borderline abusive person who is mean to you constantly, just sit down, take a deep breath and remember every single mean thing they've ever said to you. Every slam, every name, every subtle dig, every fight; remember it all. And you'll stop having the problem of missing them.
If you ever feel tempted to become friends with a weird friend; just say no. If it's obvious they don't fit into your life (and don't in any way relate to 100% of your other friends) just walk away.
If you ever feel tempted to become friends with a bad person stop trying to see the best in them and take a moment to see who they really are. If the picture is ugly, paint over it. If just by being your friend they are crossing lines, realize they have no respect for their girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband and probably don't have any for you either.
If someone is bad to you, let go of them. Don't just let go; slam the door in their face and lock it. Swallow the key, go buy some shoes, write a brief blog entry, and never think about them again. They never really impacted your life by being your friend anyway.
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